Dani Dishes 3-10-14
/On this episode of Dani Dishes, I had a fun week with great friends, family and a FUN EXCITING announcement about this upcoming week. (Hint: it involves a film crew (keep your minds out of the gutter!)
Leaving my comfort zone… one mile at a time.
Leaving my comfort zone ... one mile at a time.
On this episode of Dani Dishes, I had a fun week with great friends, family and a FUN EXCITING announcement about this upcoming week. (Hint: it involves a film crew (keep your minds out of the gutter!)
The topic I am asked most about is motivation: How do I keep it going? How do I find it again once it's lost? Can I buy it somewhere? Will you come to my house and motivate me on a daily basis? (Only if you live somewhere tropical on the last one ;))
There are a hundred things I could suggest and maybe some day I will take the time to write a wicked long post with all the things I can think of about motivation. But for now, I leave you with the number one tip I give everyone.
A little exercise I have been having some of my Weight Watchers members and readers do when saying they need to re-motivate or get back on track:
**get old school and write a list of all the reasons you started this journey (healthy living, fitness, etc)
**put those reasons on tiny pieces of paper in a jar to take out when you need a dose of motivation or put them on post-it notes and hang on the bathroom mirror
Like so...
Thanking myself for deciding I was worth the journey!
Reminding myself I am enough just the way I am!
So if you are looking to re-motivate yourself, grab some scraps of paper, a legal pad or post-it notes and get to writing! You won't regret it! :)
I feel as if the lyrics to Pink's song "F*ckin' Perfect" were written for me. I know I have mentioned it before, but I think each time I hear them it just resonates with me even more. The parts that really get me are: "Pretty, pretty please Don't you ever, ever feel Like your less than F*ckin' perfect. Pretty, pretty please If you ever, ever feel Like your nothing You're f*ckin' perfect to me.
You're so mean, When you talk about yourself, You are wrong. Change the voices in your head Make them like you instead."
The second stanza in particular was me to a T. For so long, I was my own worst critic. I honestly am not sure what has switched inside my head, but all of a sudden over the last month I am FINALLY taking some PRIDE in what I have accomplished. I can't tell you what made the trigger go off, but it did.
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But, as I thought about how on January 28, 2011, I went under the knife for major back surgery, and how much has changed since that moment...
* I took the wife's advice and started this blog ... three-year blog-aversary is May 26, 2014.
* I proceeded to rekindle my love of running - completing 14 races from June through December of that year - including a half marathon less than 8 months after surgery.
*I've completed 15 half marathons and 3 marathons since having a microdiscectomy on my back January 2011, where the doctor said I wouldn't be able to run again because of the strength lost in my left leg.
*I've been lucky enough to travel around the United States running in races and meeting amazing bloggers/social media friends along the way.
*Married my love on November 12, 2010. :)
* The wife and I took a vacation together that was longer than three days. We finally got to go on that Hawaiian honeymoon we wanted ... where I proceeded to wear a bathing suit ... IN PUBLIC!
* I was featured in a magazine article about my weight loss journey.
* I hit my original goal weight that I set on November 2, 2009 (Day One of Weight Watchers). I hit the NEW goal weight (155) that I set after hitting the first goal weight (164). :P
* We made the biggest decision of our life together to date and picked up and moved back to the East Coast in January 2012.
* I was chosen to work for Weight Watchers as a Leader and continue to pay forward everything they had given me.
* I hit LIFETIME status with Weight Watchers, which meant I hit my goal weight and maintained it for 6 weeks. Woo! I even got to live out my fantasy of having a Biggest Loser type moment by throwing confetti in the air! :)
*I've improved my 5k time from 38:21 to 21:59. I hit my first-ever sub 8 min/mile pace in March 2012 - 7 years after my 5k! :)
* I've raised over $11,000 for Tedy's Team and the Fight Against Stroke in honor of my Grandparents!
* I completed the Dopey Challenge in Disney - 4 races, 4 days, 48.6 miles!
*I wore a bikini in public, which I NEVER thought would happen.
* After starting the #plankaday program with a 30 second plank in 2011, my PR for a plank is now 5 minutes and 30 seconds.
* This blog's Facebook page is approaching 7,000 likes.
Wow, I cannot believe all of that awesome stuff has taken place in the last 14 months. After writing that out, how can I not be completely proud of myself. I have accomplished so much and have followed my heart in ways I could've never imagined.
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Growing up I had zero confidence in myself, through this journey on Weight Watchers I have found a sense of outgoing confidence I never thought possible. Are there times (like this past weekend) when it fails me, sure, but deep down I still know that "I am STRONGER than I think I am!" Sometimes, I just need to repeat that to myself a few hundred times to get it to stick.
Because this journey has taught me that it is okay to be me because I am freakin' awesome! Each day I become a little more comfortable in my own skin because I have sooo much to be proud of.
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So if you are ever having a down day, just know: you are freakin' perfect to me!!
A year ago today, I received my Spin Instructor certification and was on cloud 9.
It was one of the scariest "out of my comfort zone" challenges I had taken on at the time. It was amazing to be in a room with folks of all ages, sizes and backgrounds - there for the same reason. Plus, I can vividly picture how scared I was driving up to Manchester, NH for the orientation and knowing I overcame it is something I can't put a price tag on.
I physically took the day-long orientation on March 9th and the online test on March 10th.
If you want to know more about the day-long orientation, feel free to check my post out here.
I was anxious to get in front of a class and share what I learned. I reached out to Spin Instructor friends in the area to find out how they got their gigs. They clued me in on the audition process at most gyms/studios, knowing studio owners, being in the right place at the right time, etc.
I took my time reaching out to local gyms asking about availability and it kept being "No. No. No". I took it tough.
But at the same time, I was training for my 3rd marathon - the Boston Marathon - and took a step back from looking to focus on training.
I tried to network, but it wasn't going anywhere.
Now I sit here a year to the day ... and I am no closer to being a Spin Instructor.
Am I a failure for not becoming a part-time Instructor? Not at all.
Do I feel like I wasted the $333 it cost to attend the Spinning certification? Absolutely.
Would I have passed up the experience to become an Instructor? Definitely not.
I think that day has made me a stronger rider and more helpful to my Spinning friends and classmates.
I may not be in front of the room, but I still try to motivate my friends and classmates as best I can.
So am I truly okay with not closing the door on the dream?
Sort of.
I regret not doing more. I should've walked into studios, talked to owners, petitioned Craigslist to find classes to substitute Instruct in and just been more proactive.
But, maybe that was my subconscious taking the reigns of the situation.
I realized over the last year that I wanted to stay in the saddle as a student.
I cannot live in a world of shoulda, coulda, wouldas! I need to learn from the experience and move on.
So what is the next dream I will chase? I'm not sure ... but at least I keep trying!
The FINAL "Riverside Run" took place today and I had a special guest ...
my friend Christina! She is running with the John Hancock team and couldn't make their long run on Sunday so she joined us. It was great. I was able to catch up with her to see how she faired at the Black Cat 20-miler last weekend! :)
We had a heat wave in Boston this morning with temps in the high 30s! Hollah! I really didn't know how to dress. I stood staring at my vast collection of running garb this morning debating what to wear and what not to wear. I opted for a headband rather than hat, Team Chocolate Milk jacket, short sleeve shirt underneath - which meant no Under Armour, capris and my Superman socks.
Now I know I said I would wear calf sleeves for all my runs after the 20-miler last week, but I felt with 10 I would be safe in my Superman socks. I needed the extra pep in my step of wearing them today. They make me so happy. Plus later on you will see why the choice paid off. ;)
We all stretched at Joint Ventures in Kenmore Square and at 8am we headed to the T (train). It was nice to catch up with Nancy, Cristina and Christina. I missed the first two last week - we run together every week.
It was bittersweet to get to the Riverside stop on the train. It would be our final training run here, which means the marathon is nearing!! :P
I made my final venture to the dingy, but life-saving bathroom at the train stop ... and we were off!
It was awesome to be back with the crew and to have that crazy orb in the sky that many call - the Sun. It made it feel like it was 50 degrees out. I welcomed the warmth.
I really tried to take in the scenery of the run. The first mile or so is through a neighborhood before we are plopped out on to the marathon course.
Mile 1: 9:32 Mile 2: 9:04
Every week the guys from the Newton Firehouse were out offering up water and snacks to the runners. Today I finally remembered to snap a pic. It was a great sight seeing them out clapping for us and manning their own aid station. Plus, this spot was at the start at Heartbreak Hill so it was a great little boost to the spirit.
Like my drive-by/creeper pics as I ran? :P
Mile 3: 9:08 Mile 4: 8:52
I felt good on the rolling hills today. I kept thinking how the extra time on the bike trainer is really paying off. It is making my legs stronger without beating the body up like running does. I had to scale the running back this week because of those pesky blisters from the 20-miler so the bike trainer was my savior.
I love seeing this sign plus the amazing water stop guru Margaret every week. After bidding farewell to our lovely volunteers, it was time to catch up with Nanci and Christina to see how he run was going. This was Christina's first experience with the rolling hills of Heartbreak so it was great to hear her thoughts.
Now as I continued on, I heard "Hey Dani" to my right. It was a blog reader Jamie. How did she recognize me?? By these awesome socks! :)
Thanks Jamie for saying hi and good luck with your marathon training with Girls On The Run! Right after we parted ways I finally had my first gorilla sighting of the training season.
I love seeing Bill the Gorilla from the Heartbreak Hill Running Company. I always stop for a pic with him when on the course. A fun long-run tradition! :)
I saw Nanci and Cristina again after I stopped for my picture so we chatted before the final hump of Heartbreak. I was ready to "make it my B&^%ch" as usual so I tried to power over it.
Mile 5: 9:36 Mile 6: 9:05
And just like that the rolling hills were done. Another meeting with Heartbreak Hill was in the books. Still no matter how many times I train on it - it is way different on Race Day! The crowds and the 16-miles prior to it all play into the experience.
I did a check-in with myself and was feeling strong. My toes were slightly sore which can be expected with the blisters, etc. But with the hills over I was ready to release the legs for the final four miles. I wanted to see what I had left in the tank.
And you know what I had? Some sweet negative splits!! Don't they look pretty?
Mile 7: 8:47 Mile 8: 8:39 Mile 9: 8:26 Mile 10: 8:15
I opted to run music free. I was having fun chatting with teammates when they were near me and waving/saying hi to a ton of friends and blog readers along the course. I really love seeing familiar faces out training. Plus I had fun remembering which charities they were putting those miles in for and thinking about the thousands of dollars going to good causes one mile at a time today!!
Technically today's run is 10.2 miles long so I stop at 10 and take the last 0.2 as a nice cool down walk. Stretch out the legs, etc. Once back at Joint Ventures, I made sure to use the foam rollers and stretch everything out.
After saying bye to everyone it was time to head home, shower, snuggle the pups, throw on my Zensah compression socks and work on my recap (hello recap!).
But now I am heading to see some of my favorite folks in Maine. So until next week's 18-miler folks...
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Week 13 Workouts:
Sunday, March 2: 30-minute bike trainer session
Monday, March 3: 1.1-mile run and Spin Class (56 minutes)
Tuesday, March 4: 30-minute bike trainer session
Wednesday, March 5: REST DAY
Thursday, March 6: REST DAY
Friday, March 7: 45-minute bike trainer session
Saturday, March 8: 10 mile group run
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Looking To Donate
Are you interested in helping to fight Stroke? Please feel free to click on the link HERE to share a donation. Wondering how much? How about $10 in honor of the 10 miles I ran today with Tedy’s Team?
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Do you love hearing people cheer your name during a race?
Would you love a way to let folks know your blog name or about a charity you are working for?
Just want a personalized t-shirt to rock?
Well, I'm ready to help.
Say hello to My Race Ragz!
I made my first purchase with Race Ragz in late 2011 for a half marathon I was doing in January 2012. I ran the F^3 Half Marathon in Chicago in honor of the Dempster Foundation.
I had a great time designing the shirt through their website. I raised over $3000 for the Dempster Foundation before that race so I made sure to honor my top donors on the back as well as the person I was running for - Mile 13 for Riley. :)
Can you all see I've been using/loving the "Finish What You Started" mantra for awhile now?
So when I was offered the chance to design another shirt with Race Ragz through the Sweatpink community, I jumped on the chance (value $32).
For this shirt, I wanted to showcase my blog.
The process was simple as I:
*headed to MyRaceRagz.com
*clicked on the create button
*selected the type of shirt (I chose the women's endurance race tee in XL. I heard from another blogger that they ran small)
*chose "customized shirt"
*designed the shirt by uploading graphics and adding text to both the front and back of the tee
The whole process took about 10 minutes since I already had my logo ready to go. Obviously, the activity could take longer if you are playing around with different graphics and text, but that is the fun part. Right? You want it just right!
So you want to see the finished product in action? Here it is.
Front
Back
The shirt is the tech material so I can't wait to show it off at the gym and during my races ... as soon as the weather warms up of course. I am glad I went a size bigger so it is nice and loose - just the way I like it.
Delivery took 4-5 days, which included a weekend. The turnaround time and quality is top notch.
Now if you aren't feeling overly crafty or getting overwhelmed with the possibilities, Race Ragz has designs on the site that you can choose to put on a shirt.
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Let's get to the part you are waiting for ... the giveaway!! Race Ragz is giving YOU the chance to design YOUR own shirt! Woo!
So here’s how to enter:
The giveaway will run from Sunday March 2 (6pm ET) through Friday March 7 (6pm ET)!
The winner will be selected and announced on Friday!
On this episode of Dani Dishes, it's time to play catch up with all the changes happening in life: running, blogging and a new job!
Congrats Laurel!
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Do you need some motivation on this Monday????
BAM! The exact words I need to read/see regularly or just have tattooed on my body to remind me why I started my running/weightloss journey. I hope it gives you a little strength for whatever you have to do, conquer or face this week.
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I needed these four words as I prepare to take on the Black Cat 20-Miler on Saturday.
On one hand, I am nervous to tackle my first 20-mile training run since March 2013. On the other, I remind myself that I completed the amazing Dopey Challenge in January (4 races, 4 days, 48.6 miles) so a 20-mile training run shouldn't be so nerve-wracking.
Additionally, I did run 17.4 miles last Saturday (February 15) with Tedy's Team and it was a pain-free experience.
No matter the rationalization that goes on in my head ... I still get a little anxious before such a big run. Especially when I will be taking on the challenge alone. No this isn't a road race for one :P but I mean I won't be surrounded by the members of Tedy's Team. In Disney, I was also distracted from the miles by the characters, parks and the general excitement of the Dopey Challenge.
But, on Saturday, I will battle the mental demons that haunt me during a solo long run. This WILL be a good test of my mental strength and how important my music playlist selection will be. ;)
How will I prepare in the days leading up to the 20-miler though? Strategically. I do NOT want to head into Saturday on tired legs, which means this week will be a combination of running, biking, swimming and yoga.
Since this is the first of two 20-mile training runs, I will use it as a test of my strategy. Everything is a learning experience and can only improve my training plans.
*Potential* Game Plan:
Sunday: 1.5 hour bike trainer session and 6 mile walk with my wife Monday: Run and Spin Tuesday: Swim and Run Wednesday: Yoga Thursday: Rest Friday: Bike
That is what I have for now so we will see how it goes, while I start a new job this week. Either way I think I will be rested, yet prepared for Saturday's 20-Miler. The biggest hurdle will be NOT getting swept up in the "race" atmosphere of the race. Thankfully many of my recent races have been used as training runs so I am getting better at blocking out the runners around me.
AND getting over the mental part of doing a 10-mile loop twice. There will be runners finishing while I head out on a second loop. Sometimes seeing the Finish Line during a race can take me out of my plan, but I won't let that happen Saturday!
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Do you worry about keeping your belongings at bag check? How about in your car while you try to race? Or you bribe a friend, parent or relative to be your "pack mule" and hold everything you own?
I've answered "yes" to all three.
So I am looking forward to testing out the new locker system put on by Blue Trailer at the Black Cat race on Saturday.
Molly, the founder of Blue Trailer, provided me with some helpful information about locker rentals:
If you will be running the Black Cat 10 or 20-miler on Saturday and want to try out the Blue Trailer lockers (you know I will be), please sign up online (here) and use code WEIGHTOFF to receive 20% off your order!! Go run ... Do it ... I'll wait!
<<groovin' to elevator muzak>>
All set?
Sweet.
I look forward to seeing you there!
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Now, I need a place to show off the bling I will earn after Saturday's Black Cat 20-miler. You KNOW I can't leave my medals hidden in a drawer or piling up in a shoebox.
Interestingly enough, Ordinary Runner stepped in to fill my void. Becki, owner of Ordinary Runner, produces and sells race medal holders ($20-27) and bib holders ($20-23) on Etsy.com.
She offered to produce this masterpiece for me (value $25). Isn't it pretty? I was able to choose the phrase (from a certain list she provided), the background color, as well as the finish of the knobs. I loved being able to personalize the wood rack. (haha rack)
The wooden holder was easy to mount on the wall - just needed the two nails included. Simple enough even I could handle it... but I let the wife feel needed and had her hang it. ;)
How awesome does it look? While waiting for my Black Cat medal, I decided to show off my Boston Athletic Association bling in the meantime. I can't handle leaving a medal holder empty.
Becki gave me the tip to fold the tops of the ribbons to help them better sit on the knobs. It was a helpful tip, which kept the medals from falling off during transport from couch to wall. :)
Now comes the fun part. Becki has graciously offered to give one lucky reader their very own medal holder!! Woo!!
So here’s how to enter:
The giveaway will run from Monday February 24 (8am ET) through Friday February 28 (5pm ET)!
The winner will be selected and announced on Friday!
Here's a little running edition of Three Things Thursday!
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First up ... Oofos Sandals
I was wicked excited when Oofos contacted me to test out their sandals (value $39.95). One because I love to try new things and two...
...I love my flip flops post race! But I find they lack in the support my feet need after hitting the pavement for a race. The Oofos sandals offer the support my feet - especially the arch - need thanks to their OOfoam.
Technical advantages of OOfoam™ over traditional cushioning materials:
I took these out for a Spin after my 17.4 miler and 10 miler. My feet really felt like they were walking on clouds (and I don't use that term loosely).
I really like the fact that I could put my Zensah compression socks on after the run and then easily slip my feet into these sandals. Double the recovery help and double the comfort. It really was a great combination.
Oofos offers three different types of shoes: the original (regular flip flops with the toe divider) in NINE different colors, the slide (which I tried) in two different colors and the OOClog (which you can figure out is a clog) in two different colors (clog is $49.95). So the variety is there depending on your dress, style or comfort level.
Many readers saw my posts on Instagram and Facebook already and asked my true thoughts on these sandals. And the verdict is in...
I would buy them to rock post-long run!
I can't wait to try them out in the summer months especially when I usually hit the beach for the day after a morning run.
Thanks OOfos for letting me try these sweet sandals.
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Numero Dos: KIND Snacks
There’s healthy. There’s tasty. Then there’s healthy and tasty. At KIND, we believe you deserve both—we call it our brAND philosophy. That’s why you’ll find all of our snacks are pretty much the nirvana of healthful tastiness. What began with just 8 bar varieties in 2004 has grown to over 22 bars and 6 Healthy Grains snackable clusters, and a multitude of new recipes being perfected and refined to our standards in the KIND kitchen.
Well KIND snacks pretty much sold me with that introduction to their company.
KIND snacks has been around since 2004, but didn’t enter my radar until last summer. Yes I know I am behind the times. What else is new?
I kept seeing their product at local races. Now, I am ALL about the free products at a race so I would pick one up and not really think anything about it I did a giveaway with KIND last August. They sent me a whole goodie bag of flavors so I was really able to try them in all different fueling capacities.
So I am often asked what do I do when I am traveling for a race, I can't necessarily make my usual egg whites, wheat toast and peanut butter concoction I do when I am at home.
Enter KIND Snack bars.
Personally I need to eat an hour before a race then nothing else (besides ENERGYBits) until I am done. A thing with my body. Soooo when traveling, I throw one of these bars (5-6 PPV on Weight Watchers) into my bag and I enjoy usually one that has chocolate or peanut butter in it (it's like a treat at 5am) one hour before the Start while I am stretching, etc.
I appreciate what KIND stands for as a company and I like that I can read all of the ingredients in their product. Now, I know some people need more before a race and everyone is different, but for me - this packs the punch I need.
I've also found if I cut them up in advance and put them in a little baggy, it is the perfect fuel while on the bike. Easy to eat, enjoyable and gives me the extra push I need. The trick is cutting it up ahead of time. I am still new to the bike so I haven't mastered tearing open the container and biking at the same time ... yet!
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And last, but certainly not least... Fitsnap App!
I think folks have noticed on my Facebook, Twitter and Instagram fitness posts a new look. They are jazzed up and that is thanks to the Fitsnap App.
FitSnap is an iPhone app that creates inspirational pictures from your workouts & activities. Add your workout information on top of your photos to create beautiful images to share with your friends on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter.
It's as simple as that!
They have a great drop down menu full of different activities you can use:
You an fill in your duration of the activity, how far you went (if you know) and then you can add a little snippet about how it went (this might be my favorite part).
They even have a whole list of specific yoga poses on the app.
Once you input the information, you then choose the layout of the overlay by swiping left and right. After that is picked, you can choose a filter to dress up or dress down your picture. Then it is saving to your phone and you are off!
The basic Fitsnap app is free, but you can make "in-app purchases" to give you additional Fitsnap themes for 99 cents each. The additional themes are: Half Marathon and Marathon. I'm excited to try those two out in the coming months! :)
So if you are looking to jazz up those post-run selfies or you just need another iPhone app, I highly recommend Fitsnap.
Oh and tell 'em IrishEyes1982 sent ya. ;)
My name is Dani and I am blogging out of the Boston Area. I started this blog in May of 2011 after suffering a back injury and subsequent back surgery in December 2011-January 2011. This space was to serve as a way for me to release the inner feelings I was carrying around and maybe help some other people going through similar situations: eating disorders, depression, weight loss and more.